sex love & lies
Sex Love & Lies with Co-Host Paulie Tenth.
This week we talk about all the naughty things that go on in G+ hangouts.
No names were mentioned, in order to protect the privacy of others.
With special guests Jane Ellen, Matt Makowsky from Matthew Rappaports Plustainment show, and Greg Adkins
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This week on Sex Love & Lies – Oral sex: Let’s Talk About It
Do women stop going down on their spouses?
Most married men agree that oral sex becomes less frequent after marriage. The longer couples are married, oral sex decreases more and more, until it just stops. By the time couples marry, chances are that they have already had the best sex of their lives. For whatever reason, spouses often take each other for granted. This may be due to the fact that married couples know they will be together until death do us part.
In addition, we will be answering these questions:
Name the most interesting place you’ve went down on your partner.
Name the hottest thing a woman/man has done to you.
What position do you most enjoy while receiving oral sex?
“A man is given the choice between loving women and understanding them”
What Women Want in A Man
This question has been on the minds of many men. This is crucial for men to becoming effective not only in dealing with women, but developing the kind of dating life you really want. It has been known for women to look for specific traits in a man. Ultimately, women want all of their needs and desires fulfilled.
The following are some topics that will be discussed on tomorrow’s show:
A Man’s Ability to Protect - Women are more than capable of sticking up for themselves. However, deep down, we all want to be protected and taken care of, no matter what the circumstance is.
Intelligence – Women are attracted to men who are not only smart, but who can hold an intelligent conversation. When it comes down to making important decisions, women expect men to be in charge and to make the right moves. When a woman is with an intelligent partner, they have reassurance that their needs and demands will be well satisfied with better understanding and communication.
Respecting Women’s Space – I cannot express enough how important this is in every relationship. Men need to encourage their partner to spend time with her friends, or to do her own thing. Men need to give their partner the time and space she needs and to just let her be.
Pleasure – Women want to feel pure sensual stimulation. Men often discuss business, sports, and women. However, women talk about sex, men, relationships, and more sex.
Being Passionate – Women love a man who is passionate, not just in bed, but with everything a man believes in. Passionate men are inspiring and mysterious, and women like that. When men are passionate about something that is meaningful to them, whether it is their entrepreneurial venture, a particular hobby, writing a book, or painting. Women love their men for the excitement and passion they bring into the lives of their partners.
Tune in tomorrow night at 8pm CDT.
This will be an On-Air Hangout.
Intimacy: It’s Not Just Physical
“The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.”
Hurt, Silence, Confusion, and missed opportunities. These are the ironies of modern life that cause many couples today who are living together as strangers. Or even worse, in great sadness. Our culture rarely lives as part of a large family or community, where we develop a sense of safety and comfort, a network of people we can confide in. Our culture provides for meeting all other needs, especially in regards to independence (autonomy), but lacks in providing for intimacy. Within this foundation, couples today must give each other more of the emotional needs that a larger community used to provide.
Today we are struggling with something new – to build a relationship that is based on real feelings of equality. It was rare for parents to model intimacy for us; they were often preoccupied struggling with survival necessities. Yet, the quality of our closest relationships are usually what provides life its primary meaning. Intimacy is not just a psychological craze, rather it is based on a deep biological need.
We will also be exploring these related topics:
- The importance of closeness and trust between two people.
- The importance of listening and supporting one another emotionally.
- Open communication.
- Sharing the things you have learned with your parter, and learning from their realizations.
Join us this Tuesday at 8pm CDT for our discussion on Intimacy.
This will be an On-Air Hangout
“Just as a heroin addict chases a substance-induced high, sex addicts are bingeing on chemicals — in this case, their own hormones.”
Sex Love & Lies – Sex Addiction
How can an act as great and enjoyable as sex harm you?
Sex is everywhere. It is an activity favored by so many, but when you find that it is on your mind too often, and it is being acted out on a constant basis, you could be suffering from sex addiction. Sex addiction affects a variety of people ranging from different ethnic backgrounds and of different ages.
When a person is overexposed to sex and sexual behaviors from television, movies, magazines, music videos, the Internet, and the real world. These have been linked to the cause of this addiction that is affecting many, including David Duchovny who stars in Californication, Charlie Sheen, and Michael Douglas. These celebrities have been known to have sex addiction troubles, and some checked into rehab to seek treatment.
In a world that blurs the lines between what is normal, healthy sexuality, and unhealthy dangerous sexual behaviors, it can be difficult to tell if you have a sex addiction.
We will also be discussing how sex addiction damages the addict’s life:
Lowered Self-Esteem
Loss of family and friends
Wasted Funds
STDs
Join us this Tuesday at 8pm CDT.
This will be an On-Air Hangout.
